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My father is an alpha male and needed some time to process the news. At the time, he saw homosexuality and masculinity as mutually exclusive, and he esteemed masculinity so much that any threat to that concept was repulsive to him. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders.

While in college, I eventually told various family members in stages until I was completely free and open. Neither one of us were out but we were hanging out at his house and wrestling around like teenagers do. I was closeted into my 20s, until my girlfriend coaxed me into accepting the part of me that liked men.

That is unless your coming-of-age era coincides with internal struggles around coming out, which opens up a whole new set of emotional challenges. He became one of my best friends and the first person I ever actually came out to.

I had to do some soul-searching to figure out who I was in terms of my sexuality. The best part was feeling free and no longer holding in a secret. Most people were accepting and loving. Everyone in my life at that time knew I was gay except my family.

You have to decide when and how to come out to the various circles in your life—school, family, friends, workplace, etc. I owe a ton to her when it comes to shedding internalized homophobia and gathering the courage to come out. This is a playlist curated by Penjot Media Group, an LA-based Black, LGBTQ-Owned production company that elevates underrepresented voices in Film & Televisio.

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I was only five years old, but I will never forget that feeling. Most of my family did great with hearing the truth about my sexuality. That lasted until I could no longer deny that I had this deep unexplored desire to be with the same-sex.

In fact, I ended up in a relationship with my female best friend at the time. In an effort to shed light on the bright and dark sides of being true to yourself about being attracted to the same sex, LEVEL spoke with eight queer men of color to share their coming out journey.

After that I remained closeted until I knew deep inside that I was gay but had never really told anyone. Top 10 gay Black actors who are redefining representation in Hollywood. I used to walk around the hallway like a little baddie when he came to pick me up from my locker to show me around the school.

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One thing led to another and we started fooling around. Today when Empire star Jussie Smollett confimed that he is gay on The Ellen Show, he joined a long list of gay Black celebrities who are out of the closet and loving it.

He was the running back on our school's football team. I knew I wanted to marry a guy when I met my straight high school crush. Learn inspiring journeys, cultural impact, and contributions to visibility. The next morning he asked if [me being gay] was [his fault].